Toxicwaste
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I have found that if you want someone to love you for who you are, you can't try to sway their emotions about it one way or the other. And you need to accept that:
1) You shouldn't decide to deeply care about someone until you are in an established relationship with them (friendship or dating)
2) You should never show that you care more for them than they care for you (the general answer to the question "should I?" is no, but not always), because it avoids awkward moments and feelings, which do prevent the relationship from growing.
3) You shouldn't try to impress her. But you do need to try to be the kind of person that you want to be, without bragging or showing off good deeds or talents.
4) If you want to do something special for her then you need to make sure that it does not violate the previous three statements.
5) Do NOT rush things, and do NOT try for all or nothing. Unless it is your only option.
6) the most important- AVOID DRAMA
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05-20-07 03:29 AM
is not weird at all. It's a beautiful name.
I'm speechless and Sun Tzu would have been proud. Let it be known Sofie Eline Sonshi will always have a place here.
